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Rested

Jan18
2009
Kristi Written by Kristi

I took a mental health day on Friday because I was really at the end of my rope.  I slept until noon because I was so tired and a bit depressed.  It seemed like a good idea to just stay in bed all day.

But Rob said no, let’s get out of town.  I got dressed and we drove to Carmel.  The sun was just over the horizon and we walked on the beach for over an hour.  There were dogs and their owners all over, running, playing in the water, leisurely strolls after a long week of work.  We talk often of owning a house on the coast, something small and cottage-y, where we can retire or relax for the weekend.  I would love be close enough to the beach where we could walk every night, let the dog run and just reset.

We had dinner at a lovely dive on the wharf in Monterey.  The food was amazing and we ate until we were stuffed.  There’s nothing better than eating seafood at the coast because it’s super fresh and tasty.  We drove home long after sunset and both of us slept like the dead.  The best part?  We still had an entire weekend ahead of us and Monday is a holiday.

My dad delivered the shelves for our built-in bookcase in the guest room.  It looks wonderful in there now.  We will stock the shelves today and get it all set up.  I am so excited to have all that storage.

Posted in Diversions

This Island Earth

Jan17
2009
Rob Written by Rob

“I’m telling you, it’s a bruise.”

“I don’t remember banging my foot on anything – it could be necrotic tissue, caused by some obscure flesh eating disease that only three doctors in the world know anything about.”

“Dammit, it’s a bruise and you’re not watching any more House episodes – ” – *BANG* – “OH MY GOD – DID SHE JUST.. ??”

“Yep. Sure did.”

“Why’d she DO that?”

“Well, she’s had a hard path – see, him, after a long relationship full of sexual tension, he finally got with her, but then she couldn’t deal with it so like, the very next morning, she ran off to marry this other guy. That left him kind of floundering, so she kind of got him on the rebound and they got married. And it was a bad marriage. And now the last hope she’s been clinging to in life has been crushed in a radioactive crater. So this is her coming to the end of a bad road.”

“Oh. So her.. is she a.. ?”

“I don’t think she’s the last one. Something a lot more complicated is happening here.”

“This show gets darker with every episode.”

“Yeah. But that’s part of its charm.”

“You’re still done with House for a while.”

“That’s okay – Galactica’s back on.”

Posted in Diversions

Fear and Loathing

Jan09
2009
Rob Written by Rob

Long week. Long, tense, stressful, on edge week full of fear and loathing. Please let it be over.

The good news is that the business did great in November. The bad news is that virtually all of those invoices, due at the end of December, remain unpaid. So this week I’ve been playing the hardass with my clients, reminding them that the holidays are over and that, well, it’s be kinda cool if they could – oh, I dunno – like pay their bills and stuff. At this writing, I have assurances that the big check is going out today and that the runner-up at least has been approved, if not actually cut and out the door yet.

Kristi’s situation is pretty much what it was earlier this week. She passed a handful of her fails, and has spent the week flying under the radar, barely leaving her classroom, waiting for inevitable call or email summoning her to the dark room with the metal chair and bare swinging light bulb.

It hasn’t happened. She hasn’t heard a word about the OMG-WTF-EMERGENCY-OMG that caused her to spend her entire holiday break obsessively worrying about losing her job.

We think the entire issue may have fallen off the radar, a small crisis quickly overwhelmed by a much bigger one: the California state budget fiasco. I don’t plan to get into the politics here on R&K – it’s enough to say that Sacramento better get its act together and fast. Else, the state runs out of money in February, and then all sorts of hilarity follow. There’s a lot – a LOT – of frantic discussion right now over how to keep the schools open without state funds, should the budget deadlock continue. So we’re thinking that right now, 17 failing students aren’t the highest priority.

It’s not all worry and uncertainty here. We’re at the start of Q1 for me, which tends to be (by far) my busiest and most profitable time of the year; I have several regular clients and work coming in. Kristi teaches a core subject mandated by Federal law – thank you, George W. Bush – and she’s respected and well liked by her peers. We’re both healthy and somewhat financially solvent. For the time being, we’re holding it together.

Oh – and the bookshelves are done, waiting now only for a truck to drive them over to the house.

We’re having an unplugged night tonight. We both desperately need it.

NEWS: – There’s a new Members Only item, involving good friends of ours and some exciting news that we can finally talk about. If you’re already registered at R&K, log in and find out all about it! (And if you haven’t registered yet, why haven’t you?)

The Rhythm Of Everyday Events

Jan05
2009
Rob Written by Rob

It’s back at work today. And last night for a change it was my turn to be the insomniac. At around 1am I’d been tossing and turning for two hours, and the last thing I wanted to do was wake Kristi up – she absolutely needed a good nights sleep before going back to school today – so I quietly slipped away to the guest room and spent another hour tossing, reading, turning, counting sheep, tossing, reading some more.

Eventually I got to sleep.

The last few days around here have been stressful, mainly just because we both have had a lot of anxiety over what awaited us each on our return to work. As I write this, I haven’t heard from Kristi about the situation; right now I’m taking no news as good news. I’ve been sitting here trying to get some answers regarding where $6K in outstanding November billing currently sits, and getting various answers.. not bad news exactly, just a lot of people slowly getting their acts back together after the holidays.

Speaking for myself – and this may change within the hour – the stress is down again. Situations haven’t changed. Work still needs to be done. Risks haven’t disappeared. Uncertainty hasn’t abated. But I think a lot of my stress personally just comes from being disassociated with the everyday rhythm of events. Good news, bad news, dammit, I just want news. It’s being sidelined with only suspenseful thoughts and not being able to do anything about it that drives me mad.

I’m feeling like I’m getting back into the rhythm today. It’s a good feeling.

Now just waiting for Kristi to get home and to tell me just what the heck transpired on her end today.

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